How to select my first company? On the basis of salary or opportunity to learn new things?

A perfect balance of both will give you job satisfaction. Try taking the job which pays you as per the time you are devoting to them. As you are at an initial stage, you have time to explore, learn and grow. 

Even if, after joining a certain company, you are not satisfied with the job role or work culture, consider it as a good experience. Just keep an open mind and think rationally before making any decisions. Maybe consult a career counselor for better guidance.

My manager keeps on approaching me on whatsapp or emails for work during the weekends. I am a hardworking and dedicated employee but that doesn’t mean I have to make myself available all the time for my company. How to convey this to my manager?

If it’s an occasional thing, check the priority of the work. Take a call depending on the context of the message, such as whether a task or question can wait until Monday to be addressed. If it’s a regular thing I suggest you talk to your manager politely.

I’m a final year medical student. I used to be a very confident and focused person and very good at my studies before but over a few years it has decreased.

It's not uncommon to experience a loss of confidence and interest in our work, whether we are students or experienced professionals. When this happens, it's important to take action to rekindle your passion and find new inspiration in your daily routine.

One way to do this is by embracing new experiences and trying new things. Even small changes in your daily routine can make a big difference in how you feel. For example, you could try doing a task you normally do with your right hand with your left hand instead or take a completely new route to work instead of your usual path.

These small changes can help your brain to think differently and release a different set of chemicals, which can help you feel more energized and motivated. By incorporating newness and variety into your daily routine, you can break out of the rut you may be feeling and open yourself up to new possibilities and opportunities.

So my advice to you is to try something new every day, even if it's just a small change. Take a different approach to a task, try a new hobby, or connect with someone you wouldn't normally talk to. By challenging yourself and stepping out of your comfort zone, you may discover new passions and find renewed excitement in your work and your life.

My parents are pressuring me to take a course my neighbor pursued and did really well. But I don’t have any interest in that. What should I do?

It's very considered normal issue, so most importantly comprehend your area of interest, presently make a proof of idea for your ideal course that your need to select for, for example, top organizations, course expense, Scope of work (package+Growth) likewise some top powerhouses who previously made their name in their separate field, Presently come to your neighbor's part then you want to cause your parent to comprehend that your neighbor did likewise, that is he likewise picks the course he was keen on and became capable and presently he is doing all around well. Each field has its own development regions, there is nothing similar to just either field is great for bringing in cash.

1. Know your advantage
2. Track down top foundations
3. Scope of work (package+Growth)
4. A few decent names who made enormous in their separate fields.

What would I do if I did not get accepted to the top institution of my choice? How will I face my parents?

For this situation there are generally 2 decisions

You can pick any establishment for your ideal course, Study and be talented in the particular field and take up a steady employment with your abilities.

Or on the other hand, to go for top foundations you can sit tight for another endeavor and concentrate all the more shrewdly to break the qualification interaction for the top establishments you are liking.

It's every one of the fantasies that you could find success assuming that you go to the top establishments for your review, the truth of the matter is greatness in the particular field, there are a huge number of fruitful individuals who are not from the top organizations and making great names in their separate field.

Top foundations are enhancing your schooling measures, on the off chance that you need more abilities then, at that point, top establishments won't help you in any way.

My boss has a way of moving goalposts by drawing negative attention to a different set of data points. If we have done well on the new acquisition, he will say that overall costs have gone up.

The only way to combat a data war is by providing more data. Find points that support your stance.

Remember that his only intention is to create discomfort. He is least bothered about the results he is talking about.

Support your arguments with strong reasons. Explain that certain things are beyond your control, but you are working on whatever is possible.

Give a series of steps you have taken to align your team, and distribute targets further. Also assure him that strict action will be taken against the non-performers. In this manner, you echo his stance and make him feel that his operational style is correct.

A boss of mine told me on the first day, “Good management is about not giving people what they want. It prevents complacency.” It was not a nice experience, but it alerted me to possibilities of further mishaps, and I had sufficient time to tailor my style using tact. I befriended his favourite in the office and she put in a few good words about me. It drew me into the favored circle, though I never liked the concerned person.

I am friendly with a colleague from another vertical whom my boss does not like. He remains suspicious that information may be leaked. I don’t want to lose a good friend. How do I handle the situation?

Explain the situation to your friend. Ensure that you are not seen hanging around with your friend during office hours or in nearby joints.

If your boss brings up the topic, explain that you understand intricacies of office politics and are careful in your conversations. It helps to get some information from your friend though. You are ultimately, your boss’s eyes and ears in the office set-up, and will do nothing to jeopardize team interest.

There is no harm in dropping a sentence that your friend now keeps a distance, because his boss does not like that.

My close friend is now alienated because I received a promotion, and she reports to me. How do I revive the relationship without letting it affect work?

Be firm, but polite when talking about work. 

Other than that, be as friendly as you can in the lunch room or watercooler conversations. If you meet outside the office, avoid conversations related to work. Behave in the same manner as you did earlier.

If she expects you to recommend her for a promotion, but it is not possible, explain that you have limited power but will make your best effort.

She may not want to lose the friendship entirely, because it can have an adverse impact later.

I was in a situation where the new employee reporting to me was my husband’s senior’s wife. She was a refined and polite person, but asked for a change of department. I think it helped awkward situations for both of us.

The least you can do is to avoid being arrogant or supercilious. The rest of it depends on her level of maturity.

My colleague in the next cubicle displays bad manners like talking loudly on the phone, eating on the desk and leaving it dirty. How do I deal with the situation?

Be extra nice to her and develop a good bond. Help wherever and whenever you can.

It develops trust that you care about her interest. Then you can politely speak to her alone, and point out that she is losing popularity because of her habits. Mention only once and never talk about it again.

Continue the positive interactions. Maybe she takes your advice and mends her ways.

I live in a joint family with my in-laws. I am the younger son and I feel I am at a disadvantage. All good things go to the elder brother and family tends to take advantage of our goodness. We always get treated poorly and I have a feeling that I am giving away too much. Need help to sort this out.

I can imagine how difficult it must be to feel torn between your own aspirations and the expectations of your family and culture. It's natural to want to feel a sense of accomplishment and equality in the world around us, and it can be frustrating when we feel like we're not being given a fair chance.

It's true that sometimes we can be our own worst critics, and it's important to check in with ourselves and make sure we're seeing ourselves as equal to others. It's easy to get caught up in comparing ourselves to others and feeling like we fall short, but it's important to remember that we all have our own unique talents and strengths. You may excel in areas where your older brother does not, and vice versa.

If you're feeling undervalued or underappreciated by your family members, it might be helpful to try highlighting your successes and achievements. By sharing your strengths and accomplishments, you may be able to earn the respect and recognition you deserve.

Just remember, it's okay to feel the way you do, and there is always hope for change and growth. With time and patience, you can find a way to honour both your personal values and your family's traditions.

Kids are not able to concentrate and are more distracted.

Hi Parents, today's life is social media life. today's generation is more aligned to social media/gazettes and due to which physical interaction and communication is reduced and this has a major impact on health and more alignment to comfort zones. distraction can be avoided , if you can start being friends with him or her. talk with them on their subject and not necessarily you have to talk only about study. play some games which like- puzzles, chess where they will feel some competition and also focus. This automatically avoids distraction and strong bonding as well.

I have a feeling that my kid is not performing as per his efforts as compared to other kids.

Hi Parents, first of all stop comparing kids to kids, apple can not be pear or pear can not be apple. its god's gift as talent which he has given to all. Some use that at rite time and move on and some take time . This doesn't mean he or she is not talented. never judge by result, judge by failures how he performs and that's the success you should read in his or her eyes which is the actual success or so called talent.

I always have feelings- I am not able to give 100% to my kids and feel guilty.

Hi Parents, first of all stop comparing kids to kids, apple can not be pear or pear can not be apple. its god's gift as talent which he has given to all. Some use that at rite time and move on and some take time . This doesn't mean he or she is not talented. never judge by result, judge by failures how he performs and that's the success you should read in his or her eyes which is the actual success or so called talent.

Is it too late to get out of bad relationships? I am a woman, aged 34, stuck in a bad abusive marriage and I want to get out fast. However, I have a fear that I may lose out on my child bearing age and won’t be able to start a new family. Looking out for advice which can help me in this regard

One must understand that it is never too late to prioritize their health and well-being. Being in an abusive relationship is a disservice to yourself and everyone who loves you. Although there might be a generalized acceptance over the accepted age for having a child, every individual goes through a unique and personal journey. It may seem like an impossible task to have children after a certain age, however, there are always exceptions and you can easily be one of them. It is important to hold onto hope and keep an open mind to alternatives, like adoption or fostering.

Hello, we are facing unrealistic expectations as a couple, we’ve been together for 2 years, how can we overcome this?

Let's understand the meaning of unrealistic expectations. Unrealistic expectations include things like wanting your partner to change their values, be the source of all your happiness or go against their natural masculine or feminine polarity. And it's very common among a couple that you want your partner to be like you see, so here are a few tips that you can follow to overcome this:

• Prioritize appreciation over expectation
• Express Compassion
• Never questions the nature of your relationship
• Don't compare your relationship with others
• Never threaten your relationship over expectations

There are some past unresolved issues which are hampering our relationship. We are not able to figure out how to overpass this.

The key to fixing unresolved issues is the will to engage in effective communication. Although communication is often said to be a driving component in any successful relationship, it often takes the back seat when the powers of ego and defensiveness come into play. However, when we allow our emotions to take over, we may become defensive or protective, which can hinder our ability to have a productive conversation. During these moments, it is important to take a step back and gather your thoughts; It is better to keep your calm and hold your tongue, rather than say something you might regret later. Assess your situation and determine how you arrived at that point. It's also important to recognize that no relationship is perfect and that disagreements are a natural part of any partnership. By remaining calm, open, and respectful, we can have productive conversations that help strengthen our connection with our partner.

There are certain things which I don’t like about my partner which lead to big fights. How to handle it?

It is vital to recognise that in any relationship, both partners bring in unique experiences and philosophies, which may sometimes lead to misunderstandings, miscommunication and conflict. Such a climate can be really difficult to navigate, and finding different means to constantly connect and bond with our partners is rarely an easy task. However, it is important to remember that we carry a tremendous amount of power when it comes to the desire of improving our relationships. With effort and a willingness to be vulnerable, we can take steps to ease tensions and maintain a deep connection with our partner. Some actions that may be helpful include taking time to calm down, shifting from a defensive to a receptive state, rejecting negative self-talk, expressing our needs and desires openly, and thoughtfully choosing our words and actions. Remember that building a healthy relationship takes work, but with dedication and patience, it is possible to create a strong and loving bond with our partner.

I am in the Science stream and about to complete my 12th. I am now really confused about which career stream I should pick.

This is a very common issue among students, and when they look at different people doing well in their respective fields in society, they get more confused and start manipulating themselves. So the best way to find the right career path for you is by prioritizing your options and choosing the first 2 things you are sure about making a good career out of. Now search the market and make a list of pros and cons and check the positive side, and then choose the best college for the particular stream, and educate yourself as much as you can. You'll find clarity and it won't make you feel confused anymore.

At times I worry a lot when I have to take a long vacation with my family and have to prepare my team. I feel guilty but I have responsibilities towards my family. What to do here?

Firstly, don’t feel guilty. You are working and earning to keep yourself and your family happy. On the other hand, refreshment is important for better productivity. Before you leave for vacation, make sure to finish all projects with deadlines set during the time you're away. By accomplishing that, you will feel comfortable leaving your team for an extended period of time.

My friend just got into a relationship and it is affecting our friendship. How should I talk to him regarding this?

Alright so understand the basic principle is that everybody has their own life to deal with, might be in family relationship, love relationship or some other relationship, and your companion is at the need-of happy mode, this could be the other way around, presently question is influencing your fellowship, he is your companion and you know him/her better then the new companion knows, likewise you are also feeling the need of happy moment presently, and now your need isn't satisfied and the void happened which influencing your need of happy moments, First you want to make yourself sufficiently able to acknowledge the changes, and afterward change inside the Pattern, to make it work, talk with your companion and offer your things with him/her set aside a few minutes for your gatherings and ACCEPT THE CHANGES.

Why am I scared of communicating with my teacher?

Clear, effective and consistent communication is the most vital element of a strong teacher-student relationship. So here are some tips to communicate better with your teacher, without being afraid of their answers or of approaching them:

1. Make your questions very simple
2. address your problem clearly 
3. make notes of the issues that you wanted to discuss with your teacher
4. Do not complicate

Should I drive a better car than my boss does?

You are strongly tempted to do it, because you want a lifestyle in line with your value system. You can afford it, maybe with the help of a loan.

Individual circumstances can be different despite the fact that your boss earns more than you do. Maybe s/he looks after aged parents or pays for the education of grown-up children. Maybe you have a double income in the family while your boss does not have it.

Should it really affect the relationship?

I had a female boss once who did not like the fact that I dress well. Another one turned negative after he heard stories about my five-star dinners with my husband.

Ego is always at play. But why should I sacrifice my happiness or lifestyle, because my boss believes in living simply?

A colleague of mine was tactful. He gave his wife the better car, and continued to drive the old one. The more expensive car was always there for their weekend outings, outstation trips and picnics. It was out of the boss’s sight.

It makes sense not to talk about your lifestyle in office, if it is better than that of others. Talk about work, general affairs or mundane household matters. 

What matters in the long term is your career growth. You don’t want the lifestyle to come to an abrupt end with negative changes in your career.

My sibling and I fight a lot over silly things, like studies, physical appearance, liking something, etc.

The context of the fight is called sibling rivalry, and if it continues, it becomes a disorder. So this happens because of competition, or in layman's terms, jealousy. It's quite common among siblings, but if it festers, it can be a dangerous thing, so here are few steps that you can follow to make your relationship with your sibling better:

1. Set up an environment of cooperation
2. Don't play favorites or make comparisons
3. Set up rules for good behavior
4. Catch them being good
5. Cool down triggering points

I have a 6-year-old kid. How can I teach him about communicating and sharing things with us so that we can help him out?

The first thing that parents do wrong is they never listen to the full story, and start scolding them. As a result, he/she starts hiding things and stops communicating because he/she knows that he is going to be scolded again. Since the maturity level of a 6-year kid is very low, scolding them for their mistakes only makes them scared of you. Hence, communicate with them, listen to what they have to say, understand his/her mentality and make them aware of what is right and what is wrong. Once you start listening and communicating with them, they will definitely come and share all the right/wrongdoings.

How to decide that we need professional help?

It is perfectly understandable that you want to work through the challenges or find solutions to the problems that arise from your marriage or relationship. What’s broken can be fixed and you do not want to let go of something that has taken so long to nurture and flourish. Seeking counseling or guidance in order to reinforce and preserve your bonds is a commendable trait that requires great courage, an act worthy of admiration. Remember that you are not in this fight alone and there is no shame in asking for help.

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What about life

Life is the aspect of existence that processes, acts, reacts, evaluates, and evolves through growth. Now about life, it is all about enjoying the process of being alive and making your mark which helps others to follow the right path.

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What is 1st law of motion

The first law of motion states that every object will remain at rest or in uniform motion in a straight line unless compelled to change its state by the action of an external force. It goes the same with relationships if keep on putting effort into a relationship your relationship with your partner moves.

Career

Please share your query Regarding your career, so that I can help you out.

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I can not feel emotions with my wife ??? and looks like my mind and heart is became stone !!!

Okay, so there are so many aspects where you don't feel emotions for any individual 1. you are more into professional life 2. Lack of work-life balance 3. High-Stress Level 4. Lack of Conversation 5. You make yourself less available Since the study found that sometimes a human starts detaching themselves from things when they follow a certain pattern such as deeply into work life, Social Life, etc. where you do not express your emotions and your mind accept the behavior of individuals. And the reason your mind and heart became stone is that you are not expressing your emotions, not sharing things, and holding may lead to more destructive behavior toward your partner there are things you can follow to regain the emotions 1. Show empathy and accept the changes. 2. Understand each other needs. 3. Communicate and know each other's problems. 4. Appreciate each other's efforts. 5. Respect each other's opinions. and don't worry changes happen just like anything, you'll be fine, start communicating understand each other's needs and work on the needs, and enjoy life.

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How to make my son successful in his life

To make your son successful, the first key is to communicate, you must understand his needs, and what he wanted to achieve, support him with his decisions, make him understand the right and the wrongdoings, and help him with the resources required to support his life and career decision and Motivate him to do better. So here are a few tips to make your child smart which leads him to success 1. Encourage them to keep trying. 2. Don’t let them quit easily. 3. Let them see a task from start to finish. 4. Allow them to make mistakes—and then learn from them. 5. Teach them the importance of a job well done. 6. Support doing the hardest thing first. 7. Get them involved in outdoor activities. Also, there are a few things as a parent we always keep in mind never compare your child with others, they are better because they choose what they love and their parents have supported them to reach that level, all professions are great. Do not demotivate him by punishing him for failures. I am sure he is doing really well, and he will do better in the future.

Why students study mindful ?

By learning basic mindfulness practices, students can improve their awareness of their emotions and of the people around them. It will also help them handle challenges better, address negative emotions, and strengthen their empathy toward others.

Why students study mindful ?

By learning basic mindfulness practices, students can improve their awareness of their emotions and of the people around them. It will also help them handle challenges better, address negative emotions, and strengthen their empathy toward others.

How avoid overthinking

To avoid overthinking first understand what is overthinking, basically, it is a destructive thought pattern humans experience on the consequences without any formal action. There are various ways to get rid of the habit of overthinking, like watching TV, playing video games, or listening to music. Here are a few simple things you can do to free yourself from this habit. 1. Take a walk, observe the people observe the activities around you, count your steps, and talk to someone, the body can take your mind off temporarily, from the habit of overthinking. Anything that keeps your mind occupied with some activity that doesn’t allow you to overthink is okay. 2. Watch yourself when you overthink and see how time and energy-consuming it is, how you are behaving passively, instead of actively. 3. Engage yourself in creative activities like painting, drawing learning musical instruments, and try to fix your attention on what you are doing and avoid being absent-minded. 4. Write down your thoughts on a paper, and see how you can end up the thought with a better solution, once you start doing you'll find there is nothing you can do about things without action. take action on the thoughts which bother you if it has a solution then make it happen if it is not then, tell yourself it's a waste and the mind will adopt the attitude and overthinking will fade away.

Career goals

A career goal is an ideal state that you aim for in your professional life. Career goals can be characterized as short-term or long-term, depending on how much time you anticipate working toward achieving your goal.

I have been married for 3 years now. Our communication skills are at its worst. We never had a good honeymoon phase in our relationship. Did not have long deep conversations. I am a long deep conversation kind of a person. He is not. And its not his fault, people are different , I get that. But we dont understand eachother. Its just so hard for us to communicate our thoughts. Things just went very downhill adter a baby. We have a one year old. And we are doing long distance right now. For most of our marriage we did long distance. We really need to get better. We dont even know what both of us likes. I try to speak openly, but Iam unable to. He doesnt seem to be on the same page. I dont want to open up and regret it.

It shows a lack of Emotional Availability within your husband, which may be due to stress, could be family (parents or relatives) or professional, which may lead him to this situation. since you have already mentioned that you have tried communicating to understand him, but there is still a void between you and your husband. My suggestion you take up one-on-one counseling sessions.

true relationship

A true relationship where you fully accept the other person and don't want them to change. You love them! We constantly think of feeling safe in a physical or emotional sense. Still, another aspect of feeling safe in a relationship is knowing you are loved and secure in who you are as a person.