I have been married for 3 years now. Our communication skills are at its worst. We never had a good honeymoon phase in our relationship. Did not have long deep conversations. I am a long deep conversation kind of a person. He is not. And its not his fault, people are different , I get that. But we dont understand eachother. Its just so hard for us to communicate our thoughts. Things just went very downhill adter a baby. We have a one year old. And we are doing long distance right now. For most of our marriage we did long distance. We really need to get better. We dont even know what both of us likes. I try to speak openly, but Iam unable to. He doesnt seem to be on the same page. I dont want to open up and regret it.

It shows a lack of Emotional Availability within your husband, which may be due to stress, could be family (parents or relatives) or professional, which may lead him to this situation. since you have already mentioned that you have tried communicating to understand him, but there is still a void between you and your husband. My suggestion you take up one-on-one counseling sessions.